Virginity = Slut

In our class Thursday, we had a huge discussion on the unwritten rules of being a slut and being a virgin.  When your a slut you are sleeping around with everyone, when you are a virgin, you are obviously sleeping around with no one.  Now though for our society you have to choose which category you fall under.  Are you the slut or are you the virgin?  A guy brought up in class that if a woman were to make out with 5 different guys at a party, she would be more of a slut than a woman hooking up with one random dude.  If the "virgin" wants to make out with random people who cares?  She isn't contracting STD's and putting herself in risky situations sexually.  The woman sleeping with a guy she just met at a party is extremely more sluttier and she shows having little respect for her body.  Just a personal observation and thought.

Aside from that, I find it humors though that woman are judge constently of how many sex partners they have had.  Not trying to generalize here, but I have known that men like to have goals for themselves.  Maybe 15 sexual encounters for the year, more or less.  And guys friends egg it on and cheer for their boys cause our society sees no wrong in men having a lot of sex with a lot of different women because it is expected.  Women on the other hand are either being judge by guys for not having enough sex or too much sex and other women judge women for engaging in waaaaay too much.  Why does it matter???/

Clothing....

So, I was getting ready for bed the other evening and something so random came to mind; women can wear men clothing to bed BUT men cannot wear women clothing.  Women are allowed to wear the baggy gym shorts with over sized t-shirts and not have their gender challenged, whereas men will be called gay for wearing any thing looking like women clothing.  I guess it is just kind of ridiculous to me.  Women have always been trying to be seen as equal to men but now as women are allowed to dress like men and have it be socially acceptable, men are still far behind.  In a sense I feel bad for men because if they are comfortable in the women attire then they should be able to wear women attire and NOT be made fun of.